lingering topic - Boyfriends & Dance

I have been questioned many times over
- " since you're so into salsa, would you like a bf who can dance? "
- " would your bf be from the salsa scene? "
- " would you mind him dancing with other girls? Especially some couple dances.. "
- " what are other factors that would influence your decision to engage in a r/s? "
- " who would you want to meet? "

a) yes - I would like that, but doesnt matter if he doesnt. A dance is made more meaningful by the relationship shared, and it stands the same in the instance of Friends. If he doesnt, at least understand my "passion" for dance; and.. this sounds *roll eyes* silly, but if he dances, he only starts dancing coz of me..

b) probably not - those that start dancing on their own.. are.. hhmm.. let me put it in a way I told a friend when he asked: these guys carry a certain stigma, that they're there to learn just to pick up girls.

c) tough. - "Always treat others the way you want to be treated", thusly, respect their decisions, right? WRONG, i.e. if I were to be really stingy. BUT, I also want to dance, and I DEFINATELY know my limits.. so I just hope my (future) partner shares the same sentiments....

d) i'm fussy. too bad. *grumble*
[smarts] [bigger taller frame] [richer - to ensure my entrance to young taitai-hood] [handsome - my scoreboard is tough to pass. how often do you see me drooling?] [kindly] [honest] [considerate] [filial] [hardworking - to make up for my lack of it, haha] [healthy & fit - which most wld be, with NS or reservist. dont think I'd hook up with someone past reservist, now would I?] [share same morals and values, ideals and thoughts].. DUH, the usual.
~~~ Then you look back and examine my previous "choices"..
(for those who know history, I only beg to say - no one is that perfect.. ;p the guys are all wrong.. *LOL*.. okok, truth be, I probably suck at this)

e) friendster answer - And people ask me abt the relationship bits: Not so much serendipity, but since I'm a bit of a dreamy fairytale person.. romantic idealist... you can more or less make your guess. Doesnt mean I make a nice princess thou.. *evil laugh*

I cant really remember any other questions now at 3.30am.. and anything else you want clarified? - add to comments ;p