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added a friends list
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Current MSN Nick: sunday morning rollerblading - ECP - 9am

1) Relationships
If relationships are gradually looking towards being more open (think up to casual/ friendly sex and swinging) then.. humans are going in circles.

Its accepted that we're ANIMAL. Just that we've developed intellect over other species. So, now we're smarter right?

Back in time - women were oppressed; men were considered the superior. With relationships in mind.. Men were allowed MANY WOMEN. (women's Lib - ok, joking, i'm not really into feminism)
But thats changed over the years, doncha think? Its moved on to the acceptance of monogamous relationships as a social norm.

Basic instincts in humans somehow seem to speak through the actions we do. So what if they advocate monogamous relationships? Its not quite happening. And for most, if you think about it Long and Hard, its the society's rules that imposes on your frame of mind. Think abt it, would you be happier of you could screw those you're attracted to? like... rabbits or mice or something along those lines, ok, myabe thats exaggerated... As opposed to, you're stuck with your girl/ guy and you wish to keep the r/s happy and not-too-complicated (esp with girls being more emotional creatures, and I think thats a blessing actually).

So we're going one full circle.. We're Still Animal; Serious/ Monogamous/ one-partner-only Relationships are gonna take a backseat in time to come... Somehow casual sex is rampant, even if you dont realise it/refuse to see it.

*sighz* Dear God (i'm not religious, its just a Casual Prayer :P), I still want a monogamous relationship eventually ok!!! I need divine help to choose wisely, and forgive my future partner for whatever "wrongs" that he did unto me.... when i'm ready to settle down. :P

**Disclaimer: *words used encompass general concepts only. I don't wish to entertain nit-pickers*

2) I think China is ONE BIG BULLY
but i admit, China is really a force to be reckoned with. They're investing so much, they're gonna be tops.. Is that good in the long run? hhmmm... more like Good Luck America. Suddenly I'm proud to be a not-so-non-mandarin-speaking chinese. :P :P :P Taiwan/ Spratly Islands/ Tops in olympics/ Motor racing... what else do they want? SOME competition is healthy! :P :P :P again

3) are japs genetically supposed to have big boobs?
it started with my nick on msn = "flat chested". And my friend msged. So i found out that hez been watching too much porn... WAAAAAAYYY TOOO MUCH. He said something like

"from your picture, I think you're a 34C"-- CLOSE.

But the impressive bit was the "from your picture" because, my picture didnt show anything lower than my neck. O_o

And then it went further to my actual size, and on to

"i think C cups are just abt the best for women, unless they're very short"

"I've seen D cups and it was TOO big"

and I agreed, coz you hafta be comfortably proportionate. Its the same for men when their tummies are too big, they cant see anything lower than that.. ODD right?

and dear mr Kachua (i shall not use real names) said

"but those were on jap girls"

ME: *stare blankly at the screen* So they fake? or real?

And thats why this question. Anyone got answer?

the story abt Virgin Airways

with reference to my earlier entry....

A: in reply to your blog abt more creative pickup lines...

"i am dying of an obscure non-sexually transmitted disease with no visible symtoms.... and i dun want to die a virgin... can help?"

ME: you.. try la. i would like to be there when you say that. haha

A: maybe i can modify to

"i dun want to die wearing VIRGIN underwear... can help me remove it?"

ME: and then .. printed on your underwear.. it wld say "VIRGIN..." in the front
and at the back "... airways"

A: eeeewwwwwwthe airways things sounds kinda gay if printed on the back of a guys undies

ME: EXACTLY! its supposed to be virgin airlines what, not virgin airways.... but how many pple wld spot that immediately... you didnt

A: how u know? i said eeewww

ME: you didnt say what... and.. anyway,"the airways things sounds kinda gay if printed on the back of a guys undies" implies it.you spotted that first

A: ah..... sharp

ME: not abt the different words airways and airlines

A: shows how extremely homophobic i am

friendster messages....

i should start a scrap book for some of the msgs i recieve...
these few really cracked me up....

not in order of preference/ humour

{steady la this fella}
Date: September 20, 2004 7:21 AM
Subject: hi
Message: hi there..... nice pics u got there ya... hmmm okie.. im 21 m eurasian arab mix... and im looking for an open relationship. saw ur pic and i must say ur really cute..... dont mind having a fling with u.... no strings attached... no commitmments.... jus a normal steady fling...... so if u r interested...... then we can trade numbers ya? okie? do reply soon! muaks!


{oh, there was another.. speaking abt a "discrete relationship" coz hez "18" and dont mind the "age gap".. deleted it.. but.. oh well.. you get the idea}


{flattering, but... duh}
Date: September 20, 2004 5:21 AM
Subject: hi..
Message: hi chinfee.. well, juz came across ur profile and find u quite sweet and interesting.. hee.. nice smile u got there.. u mind if i get to noe u? ;)


{best, this one. sent twice by the same guy.}
Date: September 19, 2004 11:03 PM
Subject: hello
Message: hello
{Another one just sent a derivative of it - "hi"}


{passing the baton these two... hhmm.. are you implying that i should solicit you!!!!!}
Date: September 19, 2004 10:34 PM
Subject: eeeeeeeeeloooooooo
Message: hi can b frenzzzz?? y not u intro urself??


Date: September 19, 2004 4:56 PM
Subject: yoz...
Message: intro pls?


Date: September 19, 2004 12:30 PM
Subject: hihi
Message: hello how r u


{IT SCREAAAAAAMMMSSS AAAHHBEENNNGGGGG, oops..}
Date: September 19, 2004 12:47 PM
Subject: hihiih
Message: can make friend???


{and, the one who cant read right..}
Date: September 19, 2004 7:13 PM
Subject: hello .......
Message: hi care to chat ???
I am Ray btw u r ____________
Hope to hear from u ........
RegardsRay
{my name is there.. right abv my profile, dude}


{oh this one is funny.. i'm supposed to reply? or what?}
Date: September 19, 2004 11:30 AM
Subject: hellop
Message: hi.. pretty le u. bye


{AAANNNNNDDDD finally!! the "indecent proposal", made to look decent.. i checked out the "friends" of this fella.. whoaaa... tsk tsk tsk}
Date: September 19, 2004 7:38 PM
Subject: I am in town soon, let meet and explore OK?
Message: Hello,I am going to be very straight forward and please don’t be mad if this is not your cup of tea. My Motto is “Life is Short, Give it a Shot”I am here to look for a lady friend to spice up my busy life of working around and stay in different countries every week.

I am looking for someone sweet (Lady only) to spend time with rather than feeling bored staying in my hotel room watching CNN. The countries that I frequently traveled to are ASEAN, Hong Kong, China and Europe! So if you are from the above countries, I would like to meet you.

I prefer to chat directly via ICQ or Yahoo Messenger, and please add me to the following network and we start chatting from there. The detail information about me and other thing could be discussed while online.

ICQ = 119.......
Yahoo = Ez...
Email or Friendster = @hotmail.com

Cheer
Mike Y***
(KL,Malaysia)
(Will be at Singapore from 20-25 September 2004)

P/S: If attached a picture if you willing to in your next reply. Please reply directly to my email address. Cheers and Be Happy!!

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what is it with "hi" being subject matter..
scroll up and check it out.. "HI" and "HELLO" and "HOW ARE YOU" ...

and also, why should i give out my number just coz you say its easier and faster? yeah, i know its easier and faster.. thats exactly why I dont wanna give it out! *DUH*

I'm so sorry to all these guys.. but,
1- share my humor..
2-you boys that message such things ah.. all deserve it.
3- i hope my own friends dont do such things... tsk tsk tsk

Mr you-know-who-you-are: remember this.. and dont make the same mistake
eating says: (he says [this] to me as a joke)
[ hi intro please
my hobbies are eating soccer and sleeping
nice to meet you add me okay
my email is iwanttohave20000friends@lonely.com ]
~so ur some hot stuff huh
Me: i am NOT
but its really qutie funny. if you read all of them consecutively, guys all pick up the same way
tsk tsk tsk
some imagination pleaaasseee

well, i'm not so mean as to totally slam such boys.. .. i know of someone who would..
her blogsite is sometimes quite entertaining.. a few awards accredited too.. :P

quiz quiz: 20 Questions to a Better Relationship

found it in my email.. :p

.. its subject heading was: take this quiz

I think: ok... i like quizzes. Kills time eh?


20 Questions to a Better Relationship

eXpressive: 7/10
Practical: 6/10
Physical: 2/10
Giver: 4/10

You are a XPIT--Expressive Practical Intellectual Taker.
This makes you a Manager.

You are cool, thoughtful and intelligent. Your approach and your sense of humor are under-the-radar, your charm is undeniable. You keep everything under control. You have distinctive vocal mannerisms. You may not have much interest in approaching strangers, but when you do, you are successful. You will probably end up with someone beautiful, fascinating and off-balance. While your partner may steal the limelight, it's you that keeps things running smoothly and provides stability in your relationship. If you are with someone as contemplative and hard-headed as you, you can have a tough time. Your greatest asset is that you tackle conflict as it rises -- you don't ignore it and let it brew. If you have a partner that *does* let it brew, it will make you crazy! You can find yourself fighting for two -- trying to anticipate your partner's needs and draw their feelings out -- which is exhausting and, well, not your job. You would never cheat. You would make an excellent spouse. When your spouse's friends met you, they would think, "Crap, why couldn't I get that one?"

Of the 71207 people who have taken this quiz, 5.6 % are this type.

its like.. not quite right, but maybe i'm like that in actual fact? hhmmmmm........

Oh, this is pretty cool:

XPYGRoving Spouse
XPYTPlayer
XPIGCatch
XPITManager
XSYGSex Bomb
XSYTFirebrand
XSIGTeddy Bear
XSITHellcat
RPYG1950s Parent
RPYTStoic
RPIGRock of Gibraltar
RPITLove Geek
RSYGNice Guy/Nice Girl
RSYTBrute
RSIGPeople-Pleaser
RSITArchetypal Oldest Child

SO WHICH ARE YOU??
add to comments please... so i can remember ;p

Current MSN Nick: (A) Addicted. (6) So stop me

.. what?

1) I felt a lil odd when i read off The Newpaper's advice column today.
This girl, she said she was 19, married to someone she doesnt love.
He is 32, and is her god-brother.
I feel oppressed for her. She married because her "mother adored him" and that it would be a waste for him "to marry someone else".

*sighz*

2) I had 4 hours of slp. then Dance training. Aching madly. But feels good. I would like a massage.. *grin*

3) I would.. like ... sheesha? KAKI5!!

4) what abt alcohol?

5) damn econs lecture. 1st day of sch (aft 1 wk break)

6) I would like a bathtub in my home? no, i would like to soak in a bathtub.

7) I am reminded that i lost my goggles. They've been with me since SEC3!!!! :( I kept them in really good condition :(

8) ... stoned.



Current MSN Nick: (A) Addicted (6)

PS: in MSN, (A) is an Angel Smiley; and (6) is the Devil Smiley

Grandmother's stories..

My uncle sent this to me...

in the email, he said:
All grandmother story have a moral.

All uncle fei's story, you have to seach hard
for the moral, but it's there somewhere.

"Everything's got a moral,
if only you can find it."
---Alice in Wonderland

Alright.

I like this one...

Grandmother story II - The one you feed

Old grandmother
told his grandson
about a fight
A fight is going on
inside me
he said to the boy.
It is a terrible fight
and it is between
two wolves

One is evil
He is anger
envy
sorrow
regret
greed
arrogance
self-pity
guilt
resentment
inferiority
lies
false pride
superiority
and ego.

The other is good
He is joy
peace
love
hope
serenity
humility
kindness
benevolence
empathy
generosity
truth
compassion
and faith

This same fight
is going on inside you
and inside
every other person too

The grandson
thought about it
for a minute
and then asked
his grandmother
which wolf would win

Old grandmother
simply replied
"The one you feed."


Current MSN Nick: sick... Zouk this wed? MY INTERNET KEEPS D/Cing!!! bowling/ zouk/ shisha anyone?

p.s someone did mention i sounded really really bored........

woes

Sick - missed Salsa training today. will go down tmr, regardless.. *yawn*
:(

Laptop is wonky ALREADY. and i just recieved it today.
Who is good in networking? and can come by to seletar hills to help?
GEEZ, my internet connection crapped up alot tonight too!
:(

I cant get a wireless connection via laptop, even if wifi says its working!!! hafta stuff the network cable in .. so i'm stuck to the table.
:(

My bro's comp cant connect to the internet either. Like i said, the broadband connection/ router went mad. Poor thing, I would hate to be in his shoes.. then again, i was kinda stranded without a comp, a lost soul.. was using sis's comp for weeks!
:(

I've got a few programs now. I can webcam and audio chat. Get skype okie? then we can chat across the oceans for free!
:)

~~~ oh, and would like to implore you to send me your contact details, Please? IE Full name, email addresses, mailing address, contact numbers, birthday.. all that. Updating address book.. and then will back up.. :p
:/

Also, if you have photos (like events we went together..) and videos.. Can you send me a copy too?
:(

lost everything

see, more :( than :)
WOEEEEEES, Be Gone..


Current MSN Nick: setting up my laptop - so who's good at networking? if you have any photos with/of me, can you send to me? lost EVERYTHING..

Playerette??

You think I can make it as a Playerette? the female version of the Playa?
LOL

Tell me I'm that good.. muahahahhahahah


Current MSN Nick: i need a man.. life.... wait.. i have too many men? So where is my prince charming?

Did you know...

... that on the sbs busses, if you press 2 buttons (to sound the bell) at ard the same time, 2 bells will sound? Means that each button will activate 1 bell sound... It happened today. 1st time I've heard it in my life!

next time try pressing all the bells in different order...


... dell computer is coming tmr!!!!


... that there is no such thing as "prince charming".. Unless you're living in Far Far Away Land with Shrek.

Nat: then dream of prince charming....hehehe
me says: .. there is no such thing as a prince charming la
we shd stop deluding ourselves
Nat: hahaha hMMm....metaphoric only la
hey.....ur caption.....
me says: hhmm? LOL nonono, itz coz i've a friend whoz nick is "i need a life man.."
so i turned it over and put that
Nat: oh...clever!

Current MSN Nick: i need a man.. life..

where does it stand now?

Poor chinfee, who is usually pretty sure of her daily life... is rather confused at what is happening right now.

what is happening to me!!!!!!
All YOUR Fault... *grumble*

on top of this, i've got tests coming up. *urgh*

nice guys finish last.. :?

read yt's blog entry...

.. ok, yeah


Current MSN Nick: The reality is that in almost all successful pickups, it is the woman who seduces the man without saying a single word.

Skydiving:

$450 - to M'sia
price should cover everything - subject to confirmation, but there will be 2 theory lessons and 2 dives.
Place, not sure either
not sure if you dive alone, or tandem with instructor
looking for people to make the numbers

Interested?

... so I skipped school today.

Figured that even if I could wake up to go to school, I probably wouldnt be able to stay awake when all I'm supposed to be doing is sitting down to listen abt Dr. Wong rattle on abt socio. I hope I can read up easily. *grin*

Aft Viva's rehearsal last night, that ended at 10... headed over to Regent hotel - cigar shop. met a few friends, old and new. and after that was done, they somehow managed to convince me to head over to barnone - 2 beers, B52 and 2 glasses of long island tea, and some dancing. Energy was playing- pretty good.. :D

ah well...

Current MSN Nick: "all guys are bastards, but what to do, can't live without them" - ivan ## looks are decieving