Sunday, November 20

a wish, is a dream, your heart makes

I guess it hurts the most when those that matter,
dont seem to think it matters..

..or, for one, coz its not possible anymore.

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There are 4 Kinds of love: AGAPE, PHILEO, STORGE, and EROS

The highest form of these types of love is AGAPE. Agape love is an unconditional love. It loves when all other types of love quit, and cares when there is no apparent reason to care. The religion knows that God is an example. He “...demonstrates HIS OWN LOVE [agape] toward us, in that while we were STILL SINNERS, CHRIST DIED FOR US” (Romans 5:8). He likewise commands all husbands to “...love [agape] your wives AS CHRIST ALSO LOVED THE CHURCH AND GAVE HIMSELF FOR HER” (Ephesians 5:25).

It has been said that PHILEO love is a human love. Most friendships are built on phileo love. Phileo love is the kind of love that makes agape love enjoyable. Phileo love is having tender affection toward your mate. Phileo love is that “something” that you see in another person that draws you to be their friend. It’s one thing to unconditionally love (agape) someone who you don’t like to be around because they irritate you. It’s quite another thing to unconditionally love someone who is tenderly affectionate (phileo) toward you. THE TENDER AFFECTION OF PHILEO LOVE MAKES THE UNCONDITIONAL LOVE OF AGAPE ENJOYABLE. It’s the joy of the friendship!

STORGE is a physical show of affection that results from a pure motive. It may be a hug, a kiss, or another expression of genuine affection. In a marriage/ relationship, because males are different than females, the female usually needs this kind of love more from her guy. It is important for the male to set aside his need of companionship and meet his wife’s main need, which is affection.

EROS is the fulfillment of the physical sexual desire.. preferably (in my humble opinion) that a husband and wife show toward each other.
It’s when “...the two ...become ONE FLESH” (Matthew 19:5).

See this for something on the "higher level" of philosophy
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When everything else was superficial
He always made me feel special
Needing no words

Its things like this
That matter to me the most.


A tribute to the few whom I know, who have been unassuming, and love me for who I am.
For you have taught me, through these 22 years (in 45mins) the true meaning, the Highest Form of love.

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