so, why are some men henpecked?

This was typed last week, when i was half asleep.
If it doesnt make sense, then too bad, coz the flow doesnt make alot of sense to me...
heh

All in all, so as not to confuse you -

there is scientific evidence that when a man falls in love, his testosterone levels take a dip.
when a women falls in love, her testosterone levels rise.

So, sweeping statement, but it makes sense:
Case:

If and when a man falls in love with a woman who has the same testosterone levels as he does, before they get down to it; after they fall in love, the difference in testosterone levels will be - lower for man; higher for woman.

===> so he becomes more.. henpecked.

Other things said below are just some facts that WOWed me in the middle of the night...
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i had a pretty deep conversation with a friend over sheesha.. it was so engaging that we chatted till 6am!

anyway, whatever we talked abt probably plays a big role in the conceptualization of this post... thou it might not be obvious....

Oh well.. shd stop rambling...

Was having dinner, and the tv was on (as usual)..
ooh, and since we recently got CABLE!!! - yeah, first time in my life, Cable TV at home. It felt thoroughly different in my home.. i felt like i was in some hotel (coz thats where i usually get to watch cable, switching me own channels) - i've been kinda stuck on alot of programs on the various DISCOVERY channels..

tonight was no exception.

They had "the world's most EXTREME" or something like that...
and the topic of the day was "the world's most extreme ways of animal procreation" .. whatever la, i just came up with that as best as I could.

the few weird ones/ the ones that stuck with me: Naked Mole Rat QUEEN, Hyenas, SNAG Baboons.. but the funkiest of all - the reigning, Whipping Tail Lizard!

THERE ISNT A MALE SPECIES OF THE WHIPPING TAIL LIZARD IN THE WORLD!!!
Mind blowing fact.

There is evidence that they existed before, but not anymore!
The female whipping tail lizard is able to procreate on her own!
Thing is, another lizard has to climb on top of her to fake the "sex act" to activate the reproduction system.. and each unfertalized egg that she lays will be an exact clone of the mummy.

some background on the other 2:

The naked mole rat lives in colonies that go ard 3 feet undergrd, and tunnels can stretch DARN LONG LA.. There will be ONE reigning queen who is kept pregnant like, FOREVER, by her own offspring. She 'controls' her 'subjects' by a certain element in her urine, that stops the others in her colony from mating...

Female hyenas are the leaders of the pack, and they have a matriarchl 'society' - much like the elephants who send out low mating calls to roaming males - and its like how many cultures view the males as top priority, and the hierarchy of the family starts from the oldest male and his family. Well, the hyenas rank all the females abv the male hyena.. *GAFFAW
Take this: Even the BABY FEMALE has more importance to the pack than the most "distinguished" male in the pack.

But thats not what my title is related to, if you havent already noticed.
Its the Babbooooonnsss... there is an increasing number of males becoming more SNAG material/ adopting that SNAG outlook.. *heh. Fewer aggressive ones are ard, coz the female prefers one that can give her some LURVE along with care for her offspring. - SO CUTE

The show brought up this scientific fact:
when humans are 'in love', testosterone in females increase, while in males, levels DECREASE... and thus they dont think that much with the smaller head..

So doesnt that loosely equate to the female being more assertive and such, and males being more obliging... hehe, see where i'm going?

Is that why some men are hen-pecked? the paired up with a woman with TOO MUCH testosterone, in comparison to them...

Then again, I will agree with the female baboons, i will appreciate one that can "LURVE along with care for offspring".