flower? flirt?

yesterday, i was prodded to google "bdsm" ...
(long story that one)

Anyway, i found this. - ah but I had no time to read la. you can go enjoy yourselves.. if so..
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for those more interested in my blog (haha)....

Was more amused by the links within the drop down menu at the top of the page....
I read through the list and thought "flirting" was innocent enough.. and clicked in and basically skimmed thru really fast.

The paragraphing on the page, however, enabled me to pick up Ms. Jillson's various tips.. and the longest list was

Ms. Jillson's "Ways to be a Great Flirt":
- Use flattery
- Say "Hello" with energy
- Shake hands (depending on circumstances)
- Make immediate, direct eye contact
- Repeat the person's name
- Ask "no one ever asked me that before!" questions
- Ask for your new friend's life story
- Have something to say by keeping up-to-date
- Play with a piece of clothing (i.e. dangling your shoe, playing with an earring, stirring a drink, adjusting your hair, etc.)
- Whisper
- "Help someone get out of an old routine, and into a new one" (i.e. introduce them to some new activity or form of art or whatever)
- "Leave them wanting more"
- "Create and use nicknames"
- "Drop Names" (i.e. show your connections to other people in your flirting partner's community)
- "Wear, bring, or carry something unusual"
- Limit the amount of time you flirt (to take the pressure off yourself if you haven't yet gotten to the point where flirting is just fun)
- Set a numerical goal (i.e. "I will flirt with four people tonight, for my own good...")

now, WAIT a minuTE! dont i do HALF of the list, naturally? You tell me..

so now, I'm an INFP personality type (short poem on INFP) flirt.. AN INTROVERTED FLIRT. *grin*

As a friend, E, says "whats to bad abt that!" - point taken.

[ see this, this, this for another quiz for more personality info.. ]

oooh well... so the story ends abruptly here, to show you WHY my MSN nick is

Current MSN Nick: HAhAH: & casual sex w diff partners/cheatin doesnt slow e aging process, researchers say. In fact, cause premature aging fr worry



PS: Jen, Cheer up. sorry abt the other day, or night, for that matter. didnt feel like reading your rambles off at 3am in the morning. plus i was doing some other stuff. and to put it crudely, I DID purposely piss you off :/