some words of wisdom ..

Current MSN Nick: i said and say again "if you find someone you really like, your attitude wld change"

blue says:
who will u change for?

me:
me? oh.. i said this to someone some time ago. and i thought it was quite insightful of me

blue says:
it is tho
and it is true

me:
hahahhahahaha
but it doesnt last long does it

blue says:
u do change ur attitude and make urself better for tat someone else u like

me:
... if i did, it'll be something that happened naturally

blue says:
hmm...nah dont think it be natural
but i think u will at least try to make it a point
in fact, perfect example -my sista! hahahaha

me:
i.e. not because he wants it out of me and i make an effort, that often leads to some compromising...
coz i realise, i dont believe in compromising.... too much of it doesnt work
it'll be something that i do, that i didnt even realise till later... and i changed because it was instinctive and not on insistance

and this is what i expect of my man too

blue says:
maybe thats why u still dont wan any guys yet la...
u see ur men forcing themselves to change for u
and u dont like that
haha
(no one has put it to me this way... makes some sense actually)

me:
.. probably
... actually, i'm not sure
but thats really insightful of you
hhmmmm


blue says:
hahaha....
but do u realised so far...like anyone has make any tremendous change for u?

me:
no
i dunno actually
hahahahhaa

blue says:
hahaha..
maybe u shld open up ur eyes a bit more...hahahah
oh well...best is let fate takes its place

me:
i see
yeah
now you got me wonderin what fate has instore for me

blue says:
it is a mystery to us all
actually, believe in fate, but dont totally think it will do everything for u
sometimes, fate only takes u up to that certain point/stage...
the rest of it - its up to u to make it happen!

me:
yeah.. maybe...