It was pretty good actuall, so Kudos to En-motion Dance studo on their opening.
Anyway, aft that, stint, I had a meeting with BC and eve on the viva skit for LuthAdel's wedding.. *chuckle* Thats not very important now. The impt thing abt this
was that SF came to join us at BK for the meeting, and she told me what was at this fair.
So, I decided to go. Lucky I had the car, or I wouldn't have made it there at all!
We did a walk ard hall 6, and stayed put there for a good 2 hours! We got some stuff (SF got stuff even thou it was her 2nd round!) - pretty nice deals, including ear candling that I've always wanted to get done.. I was looking ard for the best price, and finally towards closing, I asked for price of earcandling "$20 for 1 person, but special price now, $20 for 2 people".
I immediately took it.
So anyway, we walked by the HPB Aids Awareness booth.. SF was sayin that they had this pretty fun thing where you tick 8 statements that apply to you, and they'll calculate your Love Language! The following was what was in my questionaire, and I chose 8 aft reading thru. SF got impatient with me coz.. i took so long deciding.. hahah. Y is indicative that it is one of my 8 choices, and my personal comments are in italics
DISCOVERING YOUR LOVE LANGUAGE
Y - I like my partner to surprise me by doing something special
I decided on this towards the end... about the time SF got a lil impatient with me *chuckle
Y - Sex is most meaningful and emotionally fulfilling contact 2 people can have
This was one of the first few. I always felt sex as an act was overrated... Sex really is more than just feckin ard, isnt it? I dunno if the fellas will agree with me thou.
- I get depressed when I don't get presents on my birthdays
Y - I like my partner to do things (even chores) together with me
yeah, doing stuff tog does make you understand and eventually get closer, no?
- I like people to cook my favourite dishes for me
WHO WOULDN'T? free food! :p
- I like/ need to hear that I am loved from my partner's own lips
don't have to, but certainly would be nice
- I like people to put an arm around my shoulder to show he/she cares
- I have a collection of letters and gifts that I keep, because my partner gave them to me
I was thinking out loud there and then: I did before, but I can't say for now, coz I havent exactly recieved anything much in the past few YEARS... That being said, I haven't been giving anything to anyone either, of course, minus the ubiquitous Birthday presents (that kills my wallet, SERIOUSLY)
- I like my partner to make things for me or write a card
thats just sweet la! but who got so much time to make alot of stuff!
- I like my partner to tell me that I am important to him/her
Y - I show affection through doing favours
- I like my partner to tell me that he/she believes in me
- I like my partner to give me massages
uhhuh, but sometimes the experts do it better; but it does increase the sense of physical touch/ love. TO each his own.
Y - Love is what you DO together
need I say more?!
Y - Life is more interesting with surprises of small gifts
Can't agree more to this. Its something you don't expect that will catch you off guard. Sometimes we don't appreciate it, but just think about it, in retrospect, besides taking time out to think about you, they actually bother to DO something for you..
- I like my partner to sit and listen to me
- I like my partner to give me a hug for no particular reason
Y - I like my partner to do things cheerfully for me
I don't quite believe in the word/ concept of "compromise". If you wanna do it, you WILL do it. Compromising has to be focused, and not scattered into, I'll give example: "If you come shopping with me today, you can hang out with the boys on friday night and I'll take the kids". Now ... Where the hell is the link? Anyway, one doesn't have to be in a relationship to realise that if someone is more than happy to do things for you, you'd probably be more than happy to do things in return!
Y - I like my partner to share meaningful events in his/her life with me
most definitely. I feel honoured if someone shares a lil bit of their past with me, whether happy/ sad/ traumatic.. it brings me closer to them, and understanding better, what made this person. If its a current thing, birthdays and celebrations... Defining moments make excellent memories too.
- I like my partner to tell me that I have done a good job
I got 2 main Languages - Acts of Service and Quality Time...
Can check out the link i have at the top (post title). Its the first one i got off google.. The meaning the language is explained on the site too..
I've not yet tried it, but I know many people who'd want to ;)
g'nite.
6am day tmr.. and the cycle begins *sigh*
Current MSN Nick: what's your Love Language?
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