"Wishing only wounds the heart"

Quick one.

Title of this post is from a song from the musical - *wicked*.
Its titled "I'm not that girl", by Idina Menzel.
Hope to watch the musical... but before that, must read up on the 'fairytale' again. Pretty much forgotten what its all about.
*listen*.
i think its by the orig artist

And, something to reflect the mood i'm in, not so much exactly.. but most of this song fits.. part of the lyrics.. even the style! - i like!



Can you tell? - melancholic romantic mood *sigh

Current MSN Nick: "i am, but only, the Romantic Idealist : "Don't wish, don't start; Wishing only wounds the heart"

The best Marriage Invitation Worth Reading

Hope you had one jammed packed wedding and a blisful life together... :D

so, where's my 'otherside of the coin'?

Current MSN Nick: wherefore art thou romeo...?

Playa

my lil poem, I just came up with it...

Ya look for all da ladies in the house
pick one up, then ditch her like she's a louse.

Only coz she wasn't like dem o'ther Bitchs..
who wooed you like you were some... sex god?

She showed some emotion,
along with some devotion,

that got you scared,
you playa ass..., ya'all jus all like thaaat.

Charm and charisma, and that "singlehood" won't getcha anywhere, dude.

Current MSN Nick: There's somebody I'm longing to see, I hope that he, turns out to be, someone to watch over me...

One of my good friend's "Life's Mottos", with the assumption that there is something going on in your relationship...

If a guy wouldn't acknowledge you as someone he likes/loves in public, this arse is NOT worth your time

But, with that being said,
if the arse were "THE PLAYBOY OF THE YEAR", or the likes of it

... shouldn't you be worried?

Current MSN Nick: skibberdewinkkedinkkidink skibberderwinkkidoooo I love you!

陶喆 - 爱很简单

Love, is Simple

This song has enraptured many hearts..
For the sake of it, I'm just putting down the lyrics (yes... I googled it... As IF I can get the chinese characters right... Stop singgering already.)

爱很简单 - 陶[吉吉]

忘了是怎么开始 也许就是对你一种感觉
忽然间发现自己 已深深爱上你 真的很简单
爱的地暗天黑都已无所谓 是是非非无法抉择
没有后悔为爱日夜去跟随 那个疯狂的人是我 喔～

I LOVE YOU 无法不爱著你 BABY 说你也爱我
I LOVE YOU 永远不愿意 BABY 失去你

不可能更快乐 只要能在一起 做什么都可以
虽然 世界变个不停 用最真诚的心 让爱变的简单
爱的地暗天黑都已无所谓 是是非非无法抉择
没有后悔为爱日夜去跟随 那个疯狂的人是我 喔～

I LOVE YOU 我一直在这里陪 一直在爱你
I LOVE YOU(yes I do) 永远都不放弃 这爱你的权利

如果你还有一些困惑 Oh No
请贴著我的心倾听
听我说著 爱你 (yes I do)

Not much of a mandarin (everything) fan, I would still consider this one of my all time favourite songs.. The emotions run high, it engulfs you, sometimes. (ok, me only then.)

This is an MTV based on a Korean Drama - Goong (i think- just quoting off the youtube intro).
There's a clear line of thought - the guy likes the girl *duh*.. But what intrigued me was, from the way the MV went through the storyline of the show.. how the girl was resistant.

...I wonder why

Well... This being a korean show, I would expect it to be typically because the girl has some GOOD reason as to why she's resistant to the guy... He must've been some bastard.
*innocent look*

Love is patient, love is kind [and] is not jealous;
love does not brag [and] is not arrogant
1 Corinthians 13:4

whatever the case, I still enjoy the complexities of such oddities.
Love.. isn't so simple, anymore.

Current MSN Nick: "We find ourselves in our own time". Sure; Just don't expect the world to wait for you... Life goes on, dude!

Edited in (23May06):

Thought I'd just put up a note as to why I posted this Precious Moment/ Poem picture.

There was a time I knew this poem by heart.
And I chanced upon it on an old friend's "friendster profile" the day I posted it up.

This friend was one of those sparks that ignited a flame;
That flame was the cause of burning sensations; heart aches, and heart breaks.
however you want to put it
So we arrive at the term "old flame".

I am/was surprised to find it on this old friend's profile.
I wonder if he's alright.

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Current MSN Nick: ... growing up : Its time to replace the men in my life *weak grin* // andrew, i'm not a "playerette" & i can tell u why

sucker for romance

In response to THIS

The very detailed Perfect guy survey
Created by Jazzbunny and taken 2590 times on bzoink!
His Look:
Name:	*doesnt quite matter as much*
Hair Colour:	natural shades
Hair Style (long, short, bowl cut, cornrows, etc) :	boyish
Eye colour:	brown/ grey/ blue?
Age:	2 or 4 or 5 years older than i am
Height:	abv 1.7 - nice wld be 175-185
Size:	as long as bigger framed than me
Body build:	strong, healthy, somewhat defined
Ethnicity:	*doesnt quite matter as much*
Glasses?	*doesnt quite matter as much*
Piercings?	not appealing
Chest hair?	nahz
big ol booty? or no?	NO
label	label?
His Mind
in school?	wit please
what does he want be/do when he grows up?	rich.
Can he speak another language, if yes what?	french, spanish, italian... south african?
Can he read music?	yup!
Can he read guitar tabs?	errmm... YUP!
Can he play guitar?	.. urrhh.. YUP!
piano?	wld be nice.
the drums?	i might as well say YES to everything
some other instrument?	uh huh...
Can he write music?	no need..
Will he write songs about you?	aaww.. sweet.
Will he write poems about you?	aaww.. sweep me off my feet!
Will he be artistic in some way?	ya.
Will he "blind you with science?"	NO.
His Style
Party hopper or stay at home?	inbetween
Straight A student of Drop out?	inbetween.. pref: leaning to As
Does he have a best friend?	shdnt everyone?
is it you?	heh. preferably
Is he straight or bi?	STRAIGHT LA
Religious? what type?	*doesnt quite matter as much*
Virgin? till marriage or till "the rite time"?	O_o
Should he be able to bake or cook?	wld be nice
Is it okay for him to have a lot of gal pals?	i wld (OUGHT TO) probably know them..
Out-going or shy?:	outgoing
Should he watch chick-flicks?:	haha.. why not
Would he be a smoker?:	no...
drinking?:	drink with me.. ya
cursing?	if its absolutely necessary. everyone needs to let out
does he play football(US)?	*doesnt quite matter as much*
soccer?	almost every guy plays soccer in sg
baseball?	*doesnt quite matter as much*
basketball?	hhmm.. :)
rugby?	*doesnt quite matter as much*
golf?	:D
does he drag race?	.. :/ think safty
does he have a "pimped up" ride?	i'm beginning not to understand
Can he surf?	wld be a "wow" factor
skateboard?	"wow" factor
snowboard?	"wow" factor
Would he have an accent?	*chuckle* if i think its adorable.
Anything else?	-_-
You and Him *last part!*
Does he kiss on the first date?:	*doesnt quite matter as much*
Where does he take you?	i am so for romance.
Does he pay?	for that kinda SPECIAL DATE, yes.
Would he lay under the stars with you and spout random philosophies?	haha.. not too much
Would he use endearments?	i guess.
Would you hold hands?	yup
Would you ever stay the nite at his place?	ya
Would he give you flowers/candy or a big expensive gift.	flowers, but B.E.G always welcome.
Would he walk you to your door at the end o the nite?	sending me home (esp where i live now) is enough
How would he propose?	in some innovative, romantic way.
Lastly, after you meet, get hitched, etc. What do u name your kids?	havent thought abt it
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What's Your Cinderella Story?

Some Quiz....

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cf, in your Cinderella story, you'd get to Live Happily Ever After

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When it comes to setting goals, you're not afraid to reach high. How else would you explain wanting to be the belle of the ball, winning the heart of the prince, showing those evil stepsisters who's boss, and ruling the kingdom? You're a girl with goals, and you go after them.

Let's face it: You're not one to sit around and wait for life to happen. If the driver has the night off, you'd probably proudly take the reigns of your pumpkin coach and drive yourself to the party. You're not the type to have a team of servants at your beck and call although that wouldn't be so horrible, now would it? But if good ol' Prince Charming has anything to say about it, you won't have to lift a finger when you move into the castle together — unless you want to. And with your varied interests and natural drive to get what you want, you're sure to be true royalty in no time. And that's a happily ever after worth sharing.
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ok, notice.. its only cinderella parties............

lingering topic - Boyfriends & Dance

I have been questioned many times over
- " since you're so into salsa, would you like a bf who can dance? "
- " would your bf be from the salsa scene? "
- " would you mind him dancing with other girls? Especially some couple dances.. "
- " what are other factors that would influence your decision to engage in a r/s? "
- " who would you want to meet? "

a) yes - I would like that, but doesnt matter if he doesnt. A dance is made more meaningful by the relationship shared, and it stands the same in the instance of Friends. If he doesnt, at least understand my "passion" for dance; and.. this sounds *roll eyes* silly, but if he dances, he only starts dancing coz of me..

b) probably not - those that start dancing on their own.. are.. hhmm.. let me put it in a way I told a friend when he asked: these guys carry a certain stigma, that they're there to learn just to pick up girls.

c) tough. - "Always treat others the way you want to be treated", thusly, respect their decisions, right? WRONG, i.e. if I were to be really stingy. BUT, I also want to dance, and I DEFINATELY know my limits.. so I just hope my (future) partner shares the same sentiments....

d) i'm fussy. too bad. *grumble*
[smarts] [bigger taller frame] [richer - to ensure my entrance to young taitai-hood] [handsome - my scoreboard is tough to pass. how often do you see me drooling?] [kindly] [honest] [considerate] [filial] [hardworking - to make up for my lack of it, haha] [healthy & fit - which most wld be, with NS or reservist. dont think I'd hook up with someone past reservist, now would I?] [share same morals and values, ideals and thoughts].. DUH, the usual.
~~~ Then you look back and examine my previous "choices"..
(for those who know history, I only beg to say - no one is that perfect.. ;p the guys are all wrong.. *LOL*.. okok, truth be, I probably suck at this)

e) friendster answer - And people ask me abt the relationship bits: Not so much serendipity, but since I'm a bit of a dreamy fairytale person.. romantic idealist... you can more or less make your guess. Doesnt mean I make a nice princess thou.. *evil laugh*

I cant really remember any other questions now at 3.30am.. and anything else you want clarified? - add to comments ;p