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Your February (2007) Horoscope by Susan Miller

Valentine's Day should be superb, thanks to the rendezvous of Venus with Mars on the day before, February 13. Both planets will be working hard to put you in a flirtatious mood and to put an interesting person in your path. If you've been dating, you should like how Valentine's Day works out.

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On February 14, Venus will still be in your lucky-for-love sign Pisces, and Mars, one of your co-rulers, will be in poised in another compatible sign, Capricorn. Lovely! You may decide to take a little holiday in a nearby city, or simply go to a friend's party in the next town. Either would be a good idea. Also, you may find a heart stopping, romantic message in your mailbox (or receive a romantic text message) on this day. It looks like a valentine from an admirer or present partner will make you very, very happy!

... We'll see...

Current MSN Nick: "Better No sex, than Bad sex"- the Pragmatist


Maybe I should explain my nick..

The Feburary 2007 Edition of "her world" has Sealed section: SEX Secrets EXPOSED! and it included this article, one of quite a few interesting reads, "Bad sex or no sex?"

I'm not going to divulge what the writer mused over in the article.. but I certainly must say she had quite an insight - "I have decided that females are divided into idealists & pragmatists".

I Have to agree with this other statement that "Most pragmatists will tell you that they won't bother with anything less than the sexual equivalent of caviar. This usually means a blend of emotional attachment, high arousal and great technique, resulting in orgasms that rival the Big Bang. Preferably in multiples"

Its not because women have become more liberated, and are thinking more like men, or anything along those crap lines.. Its just that we know what we want, and we're not afraid to make such bold decisions. As long as I know I'm not nesting any spiders, I don't give 2 hoots if you think there're "cobwebs down there"..

To my male friends who might be feeling a lil' woozy right now, take heart, women are after all "emotional creatures".
(*duh* you always complain about that, ISN'T IT! - yew confused 2-faced slimeballs.. *hmph*)
Anyway, there are the "idealisting" kinds that rather bad sex than no sex, its Itimacy that they (we) go for. If you, the man "have gotten that far, means we must at least like you or, dare we say it, love you"

PS. ed's posted about one of the lil toys featured in this Sealed Section.. I so happened to have told him about it.. Thought if he wanted to get it (for someone), at least lemme have a look at the packaging *teeheehee*

"A woman who decides that she will never date a man who's attached (thats me, thou some fortune tellers I've met in my life might disagree...), and is determined not to cross that line (me, again), will probably never commit adultery (Hurray for that! I just hope its the same for my Future - none at present - partner). People who have affairs (tsk tsk, whether or not you're the one attached, or the 3rd party, eh?) tend to become narcissistic (sigh, why is it I feel that I know of such people..?). They only live for the pleasure of the moment and for instant gratification. They rationalise away the consequences and focus on their excitement and satisfaction.(You live your 'exciting' life, I live my HOPEFULLY Fulfilling relationship(s), we all stay friends :) - Perrrfect - . Just don't hit on me, or I'd be quite disgusted.)"

Dr John Van Epp

I read this a couple of days ago, and thought I'd post this up asap, lest I lose the magazine..
Herworld Jan2007: herworld feature - Party unfaithful

Good advice here: "Some people cheat because they are lousy characters - cheaters through and through. Others are good people who made bad choices, and put themselves on the slippery slope of adultery. ONce you figure out which one your man/ woman is, the decision - on whether to leave him or not - is an easier one to make."

Current MSN Nick: keyword: recoup // If you're happy & you know it, clap your hands - I'm not clapping.

flower? flirt?

yesterday, i was prodded to google "bdsm" ...
(long story that one)

Anyway, i found this. - ah but I had no time to read la. you can go enjoy yourselves.. if so..
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for those more interested in my blog (haha)....

Was more amused by the links within the drop down menu at the top of the page....
I read through the list and thought "flirting" was innocent enough.. and clicked in and basically skimmed thru really fast.

The paragraphing on the page, however, enabled me to pick up Ms. Jillson's various tips.. and the longest list was

Ms. Jillson's "Ways to be a Great Flirt":
- Use flattery
- Say "Hello" with energy
- Shake hands (depending on circumstances)
- Make immediate, direct eye contact
- Repeat the person's name
- Ask "no one ever asked me that before!" questions
- Ask for your new friend's life story
- Have something to say by keeping up-to-date
- Play with a piece of clothing (i.e. dangling your shoe, playing with an earring, stirring a drink, adjusting your hair, etc.)
- Whisper
- "Help someone get out of an old routine, and into a new one" (i.e. introduce them to some new activity or form of art or whatever)
- "Leave them wanting more"
- "Create and use nicknames"
- "Drop Names" (i.e. show your connections to other people in your flirting partner's community)
- "Wear, bring, or carry something unusual"
- Limit the amount of time you flirt (to take the pressure off yourself if you haven't yet gotten to the point where flirting is just fun)
- Set a numerical goal (i.e. "I will flirt with four people tonight, for my own good...")

now, WAIT a minuTE! dont i do HALF of the list, naturally? You tell me..

so now, I'm an INFP personality type (short poem on INFP) flirt.. AN INTROVERTED FLIRT. *grin*

As a friend, E, says "whats to bad abt that!" - point taken.

[ see this, this, this for another quiz for more personality info.. ]

oooh well... so the story ends abruptly here, to show you WHY my MSN nick is

Current MSN Nick: HAhAH: & casual sex w diff partners/cheatin doesnt slow e aging process, researchers say. In fact, cause premature aging fr worry



PS: Jen, Cheer up. sorry abt the other day, or night, for that matter. didnt feel like reading your rambles off at 3am in the morning. plus i was doing some other stuff. and to put it crudely, I DID purposely piss you off :/